This simple
poser met with different reactions of five young ladies from different walks of
life. adanneamos.blogspot.com went to town with this very question
and these ladies reacted. I don’t know your own opinion, but feel free and send
your comments. Your opinion counts too even as you read reactions of these four
damsels.
All women are beautiful-Queen Siaka
Nimat
Well, it
depends on what our definition of what beautiful and ugly is. Because my own
believe is that no woman is ugly. Every woman has a beauty that she posses. It
might not be a facial beauty but inward thing which brings out more value and integrity
in her. Beauty is relative as the case may be because a man’s food is another’s
poison. God has created us fearfully and wonderfully in his own image and
likeness. So, all women are beautiful in as much as a woman takes off any form
of low esteem, takes so much pride in herself with full confidence, takes time
to train her mind and brain, to stand out in a unique way. She is termed
beautiful.
All women
are beautiful because we have confirmed it from God. So, no such thing as being
ugly. A goat can be ugly, any animal could be ugly, an object could be ugly but
not women. All women are wonderful gifts from God to humanity.
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Siaka Nimat, Beauty queen |
Being beautiful is a door opener while verse is the case-Ruth Soma, model and rap artiste:
I disagree
with Queen Siaka Nimat. She was only trying to be nice and avoid the problems
of critics. We are not sermonizing here or preaching the Bible. We have heard
all these before. Her answer did not bring justice to the question. She is a
beauty queen, she went for the pageant and she won. If all women are beautiful,
there wouldn’t have been need for a beauty pageant in the first place. Let’s be
realistic here and answer the question. One would easily say that beauty is
skin deep or it is in the mind. Well, it is true. But I believe that beauty is
both skin-deep and physical. If beauty
is only skin deep, there wouldn’t have been need for beauty pageants where a
beauty queen is crowned. Judges considering the physical appearance-facial
beauty, good body frame, height and sharp brain.
So, to me,
physical beauty is a great door opener. Any woman that lacks it has a huge
short coming. And if a woman is also blessed with the skin-deep kind of beauty,
that is perfect! To answer your question which says ‘being beautiful or ugly:
what difference does it make in a woman’s life?’ Being beautiful makes a whole
lot of difference in a woman’s life. You would admire what you see first before
you come closer to notice the inner beauty. Being ugly is a put off and that is
why advertisers go for beautiful women who would attract buyers for their
products. An ugly woman would have to put extra effort to be attracted to her
first before you begin to notice her inner beauty. This is the fact! That is
why today’s women strive to look beautiful by spending hours in salons and
beauty spas just to enhance their looks. This is my candid opinion, I don’t
care what the next person thinks. Ladies let’s all strive to look beautiful for
beauty is a door opener. God Himself is beautiful! His creations attest to
that.
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Ruth Soma, model, rap artiste |
Being
beautiful gives a lady confidence-Olivia-Sandra,
beauty queen
Beauty lies
in the eyes of the beholder. But putting it in general term, being beautiful
gives a lady confidence and this invariably means that being ugly rubs a woman
of her self confidence. An ugly woman feels inferior in everything she does.
She feels neglected and hides in her shell. Having said that, a pretty woman
should also strive to have inner beauty because without that she can be said to
be ugly inside. One cannot compare the social life of a beautiful woman to that
of an ugly one. What do you think?
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Olivia-Sandra, beauty queen |
Beautiful women
get more favours than ugly ones- Ifu Ennada, actress, TV presenter
First and
foremost, I consider everyone beautiful and I especially look out for beauty
beyond skin deep. This is the kind of beauty that should matter to everyone,
but unfortunately most people only care about the beauty on the outside, the
physical beauty.
Putting this
into consideration, I would say that the ladies most people in our society
consider beautiful sometimes get more favours than those the society considers
ugly. This is evident almost in every industry. I once saw an advert for a
skincare that only required fair ladies. These days most Nigerian music videos
favour light skinned girls over dark skin. Even in public places, sometimes
ladies who are considered beautiful get away easily with wrongs they do. On the
other hand, girls the society consider ugly have to rely on their brain to
build their way up.
Some of ugly
women who suffer from low self esteem end up bleaching their skin and altering
God’s original design for them in order to belong to the league our society
calls beautiful. This is just sad. There is a wind of change blowing and some
people are beginning to look beyond skin deep before they call you beautiful.
Yes, some Nigerians are not fooled by the physicals any more. They are
beginning to understand and appreciate what true beauty is.
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Ifu Ennada, actress TV presenter |
With new make-up
technique discovered, anyone can look beautiful- Keira Hewatch, actress
In this day
and age, physical beauty doesn’t necessarily mean much anymore because with
each new make-up technique discovered, anyone can look beautiful in a flash. It’s
more of an inner beauty, strength of character that people look out for these
days, in my opinion.
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Keira Hewatch, actress |